13 Reasons Why The Terrible 2s Are Actually Pretty Terrific:
1. Hannah wants to help and can actually be helpful. She helps me put away dishes that are in her reach, picks up toys, and she is even learning where some of the clothes go so she can help me put away laundry.
2. There is a little bit of reasoning that can happen now. Sure it doesn't always work but it does sometimes.
3. She can sing songs so I don't have to spend the entire car ride belting out nursery rhymes until my throat is sore - she can sing to herself now. She can also entertain herself in the car by "reading" to herself or watching movies for long drives. Long drives are so much more pleasant than they used to be.
4. She can follow instructions and usually does a good job of it. For instance, I will say "one more book and then it's time for a nap" and once we finish reading the book, Hannah will often say "now it's time for a nap!"
5. You can understand almost everything she's saying. Doesn't sound like a huge deal but trust me, when the temper tantrums start, it's a huge help.
6. She understands consequences. She knows what time-out is and usually attempts to avoid it. A threat of time-out usually suffices to stop whatever she is doing.
7. She remembers things. It's fun to hear her talk about what she and grandma did while I was at the store or who she played with in the nursery. She likes to tell us during her prayers at night.
8. She is funny. She doesn't try to be funny necessarily, but that doesn't make some of the things she says and some of the questions she asks any less funny. She also says sweet things, like when she randomly says "I love you Mommy."
9. She picks out her own clothes. I think it's cute. The other day she picked out a purple shirt, a denim skirt, pink and purple stripped tights, and big pink boots. Too funny, but hey it actually matched a little.
10. She can be negotiated with. Of course there are things we can't compromise on (like bedtime) but there are many things we can (eat your pork chop and you can have some blueberries for dessert) and I appreciate that because everyone gets what they want.
11. She is outgrowing her shyness a bit. I know that not all kids are the same and I love her just the way she is but I hate for her to miss out on fun things because she's too shy. She is warming up faster now to other kids and that makes me happy.
12. My baby loves babies and is so gentle with them. I love to see her comfort her little friends and can't wait to see how she will be with her little brother or sister. She talks to my belly now, kisses it, hugs it, and tells baby "I love you".
13. She can play games with us, have conversations with us, and is just generally a fun, smart, happy girl!